Drop 80% of your problems!

Adapted from "Guaranteed Solutions" on Love

80% of our problems is due to this asking for attention or approval. If you just sit and write down, in a day how many things you do to get a good name, to maintain your reputation in family and society, you will see.

You will find that all the 24 hours, all your lifetime, you are involved in getting approval from others. All your life, you are on a signature campaign, getting approval signature from family and society.

In a big register you make a column: Good Father, and for everything that you do for your children, you expect their signature of approval under that column! Then you go to your wife, to your boss, to your friends. You prepare columns with suitable headings like Good Husband, Good Employee, Good Friend…etc, and wait for them to sign under it.

Of course, all these people also come to you for your signature! You too need to sign on their registers under the columns applicable to you!

We spend so much energy in maintaining our certificates of approval. Why? Stop it, that’s all. 80% of your problems will wash away. You will see, your life will suddenly feel so light and free!